My 3 brothers and I were raised by a single mom, growing up in a poor family. My father left us when I was 4 years old, when my mother was pregnant from my younger brother.
I have seen and lived that suffering during my youth. For a while during my teenage years, I had low self-esteem and didn’t make many friends.
Back then I thought these life experiences were a curse.
I was wrong.
I’m much stronger today because of it. It took years to realize, and I hope your message will spread because you are correct.
And I know many people have not yet realized that their “curse” is a “blessing in disguise”.
I don’t recommend seeking suffering, but being aware of it, accepting it, and acting upon it makes all the difference.